How do I know if someone likes me?
Look for a pattern of effort, attention and initiative rather than one ambiguous signal.
The clearest sign someone likes you is consistent effort: they start conversations, make time for you and remember what you tell them. One friendly gesture can mean anything, but a pattern rarely does.
If you are unsure, the most reliable way to find out is to ask or to invite them to something one-on-one.
Signs that point to interest
They seek you out, keep eye contact, ask personal questions, find reasons to spend time with you and respond warmly and quickly to messages.
Signs to read with caution
Flirty humour, compliments and attention in groups can simply be someone's personality. Look at how they treat you compared with everyone else.
What to do next
Suggest a small, low-pressure plan such as coffee or a walk. Their response, including how they handle scheduling, will tell you more than any guessing.
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